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An Open Letter from the STREET HARASSMENT PROJECT
To those who responded to the Indymedia article on our May 11
"Counter-Harassment Party" and all other interested people...
Some of the readers of Indymedia seem to find our tactics in combating
street harassment shocking--what we find shocking is the amount of
violence against women by men that is taken for granted as "normal" in our
society. The statistics are clear: 1 in 4 women raped, 1/2 of all women
experiencing violence in intimate relationships, so many of us murdered by the men
inour lives. All women are affected by the climate of intimidation this
constant violence against us creates.
'But wait', you may say, 'street harassment may be verbal assault, but
it is not physical'. From the stories that women send us and from our own
experience, we do not find this to be the case. The lack of a clear
demarcation between verbal and physical assault was illustrated very
well by the Central Park attacks on June 11, 2000 in which over 56 women were
stripped and fondled by a large crowd of men who had first doused them with
water and verbally harassed them. This event did not take place in a vacuum, but
was an extension of what goes on every day in the streets. We have received
stories from, or heard about, women who have been touched, picked up
bodily and in one case thrown on a subway track by a harasser who was
rebuffed. This is why we know that street harassment is part of a continuum of
violence that includes rape and assault.
Street harassment consists of our boundaries being breached by male
strangers who purposely stand too close, speak to us in too intimate a
language, publicly comment on our bodies, block our paths or touch us.
When we inform these men that we do not appreciate their "compliments" the
hostility behind these comments reveals itself. We become "bitches" or worse, and
the body language of the harasser becomes threatening--it is scary and
sometimes leads to actual violence. This makes it quite clear that the
'tradition' of street harassment is propped up by the threat of force against women.
Women experience this kind of intimidation multiple times daily and many have
described it to us as a kind of "torment". As in rape, the problem of
street harassment is part of how women are seen in sexist society: not as
people whose boundaries need be respected but as a walking-around service
class whose function is to fuel male fantasy, entertainment and sexual
needs--and on whom it is always open season.
When we confront harassers one on one, the men often have the upper
hand--not only because as the aggressors they may take us by surprise,
not only because they are usually bigger, but because they
implicitly carry the full force of the patriarchy with them--the
confidence that comes from centuries of permission--and social backing--to do to
women whatever they can get away with. Yet when we do the ONLY thing that can
put us on an even playing field--confronting harassers as a group--we are
told that WE are being the "bullies". So our choice, according to the
'wisdom' of those of your male readers who thus accused us (and who do NOT have to
live with this threat) is to grin and bear it or else risk being seen as the
'bad guys'. This is classic oppressor doubletalk: those who fight back are
labeled terrorists, uppity, bullies, etc. Alot of these leftist men
support the right of the underdog to fight back when it comes to the
Palestinians against the Israelis or the Zapatistas against the Mexican ruling
class, but God forbid it should be women fighting back against men. Then we are
being oh so unreasonable.
We were disgusted but not surprised at the many other really nasty
responses--targetting not only our members but the women who emailed
applauding our action (and we thank all of the women--and men--who
did). These included racist imagery, rape threats and a photo-shop
pornographic rendering of one of the participants in the action holding a penis.
This felt eerily familiar to some of us--history repeating itself. Over the
past 30 years feminists have discovered many times that men on the left can
be engaged in as sexist and violent a backlash toward women as men on the
right. This has been going on from the very beginning: in 1968 at the
Counter-Inaugural antiwar demo, when author/activist Shulamith
Firestone made a speech about women's oppression, some men in the audience
responded by yelling: "Fuck her! Take her off the stage and rape her."
Nor is the attempt to keep powerful women 'in their place' by
appropriating their images into pornography, a� new phenomenon. We were reminded of a
similar incident in the 70's when the faces of Gloria Steinem and Bella
Abzug were superimposed onto pornographic scenes and shown on the pages
of Hustler magazine as an expression of the anti-feminism of the editors.
That such woman-hatred is surfacing again proves our point about the
persistence of sexism--and will probably encourage more women to join us--so thanks
fellas for helping us to build a strong feminist movement!
We will not be deterred by any of this--just as earlier feminists were
not. Had they been we would never have gained the right to vote, legalized
abortion, laws against unequal pay and so much more. (Interestingly,
our leftist "brothers" attack us as these very gains are under such
ferocious attack by the Bush/Ashcroft rightwing gang.) It is necessary for women
to continue to organize for our rights--and the Street Harassment Project
is proud to be doing our part. The fact that we are filling a real need is
proven by the steady outpouring of emails we recieve from all over this
country--as well as from around the world--thanking us for calling
attention to, and fighting back against this problem. And for us, THAT is what
counts!
Saturday's Counter-Harassment Party was a huge success, with many women
feeling for the first time that through the solidarity of other women
we do not have to be powerless in the face of street harassment. Three
'teams' went out that day--to Chelsea, the Lower East Side and and the West
Village--we chose to remain close to Bluestockings--site of our
pre-party teach-in and after-party report-back--for convenience' sake on that day
but we intend to have many more such events in different locations. Our
members live in all parts of the city and we are in contact with women of many
communities, so expect to see us in the other boroughs soon. It is
obvious that harassment will not stop until there is a 'consequence' for doing
it and that is why we need to spread these tactics (note that we were not
violent toward anyone--we simply projected the message that we are not
such easy targets). We say in our mission statement that we want to "make
the harassment of women a NOT rewarding and NOT pleasant experience for
harassers" and that our aim is to "create an atmosphere in which street
harassment is entirely socially unacceptable". We will continue to work
toward these goals. And--we intend to have alot of fun doing it!
We call on all women to join us and all men to support us.
The Street Harassment Project
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